• people that wont trust
• people that wont confide in her as she is diao er lang dang
• cannot slove people's problem
• onli gossip with people
• always have the wrong perception in sloving problem
• is very kaypo
• talks alot when she shld keep her mouth shut

there are more to the list... i will complete it in one month....

show u people a conversation:

me:
i wanted to help my fren
me:
yet i can do nothing abt it
me:
jus her ing away by herself at a corner
me:
this feeling sux
me:
she dun wan to tell me wat happen and i cant help her at all
me:
i felt v useless
a:
this is why u cant get into her world .
a:
the way of helping ur friend 1st thing is alr wrong.
a:
dun pursuade her out of her problem . there no use.
a:
UNDERSTAND is the main thing .
a:
try to see how she feel . wad will you do if its reallie is you.
a:
she onlie need advice. and not ur cheering ups and wadever stunts u gave. stunt can onlie last fer a min. and nt making her rem YOU.
a:
dun gif freaking JOKIN advice. tok to her in a nicely and show and tell her tt u understand how she feel .
me:
how to understand when she onli keep things to herself
a:
and nt telling and blaming urself tt u are nt a good frien.
a:
then how u wan others to trusst you when u always nt serious ?
a:
u ARE serious. but they cannot SEE the seriousness in YOU.
a:
thats makes why pple dun feel like confinding in you.
me:
then wat can i do
a:
i dun knoe.
a:
this tyme round just try to see hows is she.
a:
if she happened again .. try and LEARN to understand her ; sit down and tok to her nicely . and not by trying ways to cheer her up . when sumone is unhappie. no matter how hard u tried to cheer her up is no used. its like wasting tyme.
me:
i din tried to cheer up today
me:
jus that i ask her wat happen
me:
then she keep saying nth
a:
she`s a close frien to you rite?
me:
quite
a:
yah . so she know wad kind of friend are you alr rite ? she knoe u love to joke ard and stunts rite ?
me:
yup
me:
but there are times where we are serious tooo
me:
jus that nt so often
a:
hmmm* okies.. mayb her serious wif you is also joking ones. nt reallie tt serious ?
a:
u always got the wrong perception of people and always think tt IF you do dis she sure will be happie.
a:
but in facts its wrong de l0h .
a:
if she reallie understand you take u as a good buddie fer tokin out problems , then u wont be having problems like this.
a:
IM NT SAYING SHE NOT TAKING YOU AS GD BUDDIE. im just saying .. ur diao li lang dang de huiwen is onlie joking and nt sumone who can listen and solve problems .
a:
change the way of u when u can try and sit down and make pple know tt u also can listen and gif advice. and nt just to listen alr and knew tt she`s unhappie and make her happie ..
a
i know this is why pple always dun like to confide in u ..
a
but onli gossip wif u .

this is the prove to show that i m useless